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Watch, Learn, and Discern

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If you really want to know who someone is,  watch what they do — not what they say . More here . "Sadly, we do not have a Christian culture today that easily discriminates between a person of spiritual depth and a person of raw talent.  The result is that more than a few people can be fooled into thinking they are being influenced by a spiritual giant when in fact they are being manipulated by a dwarf. We must always be aware that there are great leaders who can build great organizations (including churches) on natural gifts. Say the right words, be smart enough to do the right things, be insightful enough to connect with the right people, and one can go a long way before anyone ever discovers that the inner life is close to empty."  From the 2003 preface of  Ordering Your Private World by Gordon MacDonald Let's be friends on social media!     Instagram          Facebook           Twitter  ...

The Elephant in the Room...

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In 1986, Mkele Mbembe was on holiday in Kenya after graduating from Northwestern University. On a hike through the bush, he came across a young bull elephant standing with one leg raised in the air. The elephant seemed distressed, so Mbembe approached it very carefully. He got down on one knee and inspected the elephant's foot, and found a large piece of wood deeply embedded in it. As carefully and as gently as he could, Mbembe worked the wood out with his hunting knife, after which the elephant gingerly put down its foot.  The elephant turned to face the man, and with a rather curious look on its face, stared at him for several tense moments. Mbembe stood frozen, thinking of nothing else but being trampled. Eventually the elephant trumpeted loudly, turned, and walked away. Mbembe never forgot that elephant or the events of that day. Twenty years later, Mbemb was walking through the Chicago Zoo with his teenage son. As they approached the elephant enclosure, one of the creatures tu...

The best book I've ever read on disciplemaking...

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Check it out here . More Bible, Jesus, and Music Here . Want to Dig a Little Deeper? * There. I said it. * Good Ideas or God Convictions ? * 23 minutes on Jesus-like disciplemaking Track with me on social media! Instagram            Facebook             Twitter       Let me encourage you every Monday !

When the student becomes the teacher...

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While visiting a friend's church one Sunday morning in Tennessee,  I asked my 14-year-old daughter,  "Who are you going to watch today during the worship band? I'm going to watch the bass player." She looked me straight in the eyes and said flatly, "I'm going to worship God." Touche'   The student has become the teacher. From this point on, she'll be discipling me. Let's be friends on social media!     Instagram          Facebook           Twitter        Subscribe here & let the fun begin !

Video: It's Better to Build Boys than to Mend Men...

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If video below doesn't ap p ear,  go here . More Here on Dads Who Disciple their Kids . What Does Family Disciplemaking Look Like in Real life ? Let's be friends on social media!     Instagram          Facebook           Twitter        Subscribe here & let the fun begin !

Why Volunteers Ministry Leaders Matter...

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 by  Bill Allison ,  www.cupojoewithbill.com About 80 percent of churches in the United States do not have the luxury of a paid youth pastor.  And once you step outside of America, finding a paid church youth worker is about as common as finding someone listening to an ABBA eight track tape.  (I’m not saying they don’t exist, just that they are extremely rare.) Think about the ramifications of this for a moment.    The overwhelming majority of youth ministry here and around the world is quietly being done on the backs of volunteers in volunteer-led youth ministries.   If you think that’s news, as BTO once sang: “You ain’t seen nothin’ yet.”  What’s really amazing to me is this:  Despite often being ignored and minimized in the current youth ministry dialogue, I contend that many of these under-resourced volunteer youth workers from volunteer-led youth ministries are literally changing the world for Jesus Christ a few students at a t...

Look at What God is Doing: Fall 2025

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  Note: We are disciplemaking missionaries wit h   Cadre Missionaries . A s such, we give a brief ministry  update here  a t  Cup O' Joe with Bill   once every three months—for those who pray and support us. Click any image to enlarge for reading, viewing, and praying. All glory to God! Can  YOU  Help us Celebrate  23 Years of Fruitful Disciplemaking? In honor of Cadre's 23rd anniversary this month, we're asking God for 300 people to give $23. This would provide $6,900 much needed dollars for Cadre. W ould you please consider donating $23? Every little bit is a huge encouragement to us. Donate securely online here . Or send a check to Cadre Missionaries PO Box 278 Sycamore, IL 60178 THANK YOU! Let me encourage you every Monday ! Track with us on social media!    Instagram      Facebook      Twitter